
The funny thing about event trends is, usually we’re already doing it—just with a different name. Last week the New York Times Magazine had a gorgeous story about a supposedly new kind of gathering, the apéritif dînatoire. That’s the French term for a cocktail party with so much bite-sized food, you can consider it dinner. Gotta love the trendy nomenclature, but it’s hardly new to us. We’ve been planning and catering parties like this for three decades! Call it a grazing table, tapas, heavy hors d’oeuvres, finger foods, small plates, tasting stations… many different names, but all the same idea. Here are three of my favorites:

This elegant ode to Tuscany—a nod to the groom’s heritage—featured abundant antipasti like salumi, formaggi, and carciofi.

Our client—sorry, can’t say who—wanted to launch a new product with an Asian-accented menu. We leaned into minimalist décor and maximalist food: Nibbles included pork bao buns, bulgogi lettuce cups, and ahi tuna tartare on kimchi pancakes.

For this swanky event, the bride wanted a cozy-but-not-stuffy British theme. We did it up properly with pretty little tea sandwiches, scones with clotted cream, and bite-sized tarts.
I named my company after the scrivener in Herman Melville’s famous story (shades of my former life as an English professor). He’s famous for saying “I would prefer not to,” but I’m more of a yes-I’d-love-to lady. Here are some current items on my must-do list:
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